We Need to Talk

After breakfast on the beach, we can imagine Jesus making eye contact with Peter and saying, “We need to talk” – and then Peter thinking to himself, “I knew this was coming- He’s going to tell me I’m not cut out for all this – and for me to go back to what I know -- fishing.”
Maybe Jesus then says something like, “Walk with me, Peter” – or maybe He just moved a little closer to Peter as they sat on the beach so the conversation could be private. Maybe He gently but firmly put His arm around Peter.
In reading the Bible, we often misunderstand what’s being said, because we assume a certain tone of voice. You and I both know that tone of voice matters. And it really matters in this conversation between Jesus and Peter – because it greatly impacts our understanding of a loving God.
Do you hear Jesus talking with Peter in a harsh and commanding voice, embarrassing him in front of his friends (although Peter had no doubt heaped plenty of shame on himself)? Or do you hear Jesus talking privately, softly, clearly, and lovingly with Peter as He begins the process of restoring Peter to his purpose in God’s Kingdom?
Let’s listen in – and imagine Jesus’ loving tone with the friend He loved dearly:
“Simon, son of Jonah, do you love Me more than these?”
He said to Him, “Yes, Lord; You know that I love You.” (John 21:15)
Did you notice that Jesus called his friend Simon – not Peter, not the Rock, the name He had given him earlier (Matthew 16:15-18)? Peter probably wasn’t feeling much like a rock on this day, much less feeling he should be called by that name. Even still, I imagine it hurt.
When Jesus asked Peter if he loved Him “more than these,” He could have meant “more than these other followers do” or He could have meant “more than these things” – implying the things of this world – such as fishing and hanging out with the other guys. Either way, Jesus is asking Peter if there is anything in the way of loving Him fully.
Before we continue listening in on the conversation, let’s put ourselves in Peter’s sandals and hear the conversation as if we were there instead of Peter. What would your answer be if Jesus asked you if you loved Him more than anything – more than any person, more than your success, more than your fitness, more than any comfort, more than any possession? Ask God to show you where you are focusing your priority love – and then ask Him to help you love Him the most. He is so worth it (Revelation 5:12).
By Judy Shrout









