Not How I Planned It
Mark Stuart • December 20, 2023
This week we’re closing out a devotion series on the Book of Ruth.
I disagreed with how something was done recently at our church. Don’t get nervous - I’m NOT going to
say anything controversial.
This thing I didn’t like was a very small thing. It was just one of those little things that made me say,
“Huh. That’s not how I would have done that.” And then I moved on and everything was fine. No big
deal.
Except.
Except that evening my wife told me a story about somebody who had been deeply impacted by
something at church that morning. And yes, of course it was the little thing I didn’t like that had been so
meaningful to them.
Sometimes what we want isn’t the best for somebody else, or what goes poorly can turn in a positive
direction. Naomi and her family had to relocate due to a famine. Then her husband died. Then both her
sons died. Here is an example of her mental state when encouraging her daughters-in-law to leave her
and return to their families:
“…No, my daughters, my life is much too bitter for you to share, because the Lord’s hand has turned
against me.” (Ruth 1:13 HCSB)
Now let’s skip to the end of the story, after Ruth refused to leave her, remarried, and had Naomi’s
grandson, about whom this was said:
“He will renew your life and sustain you in your old age. Indeed, your daughter-in-law, who loves you
and is better to you than seven sons, has given birth to him.” Naomi took the child, placed him on her
lap, and took care of him. (Ruth 4:15-16 HCSB)
I would like to know what Naomi said after placing her infant grandson on her lap. I am guessing it was
not about how bitter her life was. Not every problem is going to have a happily-ever-after ending. I am
confident that Naomi still grieved the loss of her husband and sons alongside her newfound joy.
But during times of suffering or disappointment, we should remember that the God who watched over
Naomi is watching over us. Something we don’t want might be God’s way of revealing something
unexpected to us or reaching somebody else. A difficult time can lead to a time to rejoice. And some
things we will simply not understand. But we’re not alone.
“…And remember, I am with you always, to the end of the age.” (Matthew 28:20 HCSB)
By Mark Stuart
Mark is the husband of Laura, father of Shelby and Jacob, and father-in-law of Bailey.
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Reminders from the Heart of God I’m always honored to be asked to write a Saturday devotion, and my process is pretty straightforward. I pray and ask God what He wants me to say to people, and the devotion pretty much writes itself. Simple, right? This time was different. I prayed. He didn’t answer. I prayed a LOT. No response. Then late one night, He told me that this devotion is not what He wants me to tell others; it is what He wants to tell me. He knew I have been struggling with a situation and wanted to remind me of some things. My particular situation involves a prodigal. We have recently had some good developments, but also some setbacks and I was getting discouraged wondering if I was doing enough or even doing the right thing at all. Here is what God reminded me: · He’s got this · He loves them even more than I do · It is not my responsibility to “fix” anyone · I just have to keep loving them · His timing is perfect · My responsibility is to God and following His Will Maybe you have been struggling with a situation and wondering if you are doing enough or the right thing. It doesn’t really matter if it involves a prodigal or something completely different; I think my feelings are fairly universal when we struggle. Maybe His words to me will help you, too. If you are not part of a Community Group at IBC, I highly recommend that you find one. Our group has prayed for my prodigal and me for years and it is such a blessing to know that we are not alone in our struggles. And I get the honor of praying for them in their struggles and in their joys. By Jennifer Preston Jennifer and her husband, David, lead the Rural Kings Community Group from IBC Georgetown.
The Eternal Impact of Generosity “Do not store up for yourselves treasures on earth, where moths and vermin destroy, and where thieves break in and steal. But store up for yourselves treasures in heaven, where moths and vermin do not destroy, and where thieves do not break in and steal. For where your treasure is, there your heart will be also.” (Matthew 6:19-21) When we think about generosity, it’s natural to focus on the blessings that unfold here and now—the help we provide, the joy we feel, the changes we see in the lives of others. But Scripture teaches us that true generosity carries an eternal significance. Every gift, every act of kindness, and every moment spent in selfless service leaves a mark that goes far beyond this life. Jesus Himself encouraged us not to store up treasures on earth, but to invest in “treasures in heaven” (Matthew 6:19-20). In other words, the impact of what we give in faith and love never fades away but continues to bear fruit for eternity. Paul reminded the Corinthians that generosity “produces thanksgiving to God” and brings glory to Him (2 Corinthians 9:12-13). Our giving not only meets practical needs but points people to the reality of God’s love and faithfulness. Sometimes, a simple gift or a helping hand can open someone’s heart to the hope of Christ. In this way, our generosity becomes part of God’s great story of redemption and transformation. It’s easy to underestimate the significance of what we offer or to think that only extravagant gifts matter to God. But our Savior noticed and honored the widow who gave two small coins, affirming that her giving was of great worth in God’s eyes (Mark 12:41-44). God sees the heart behind every sacrifice, however small, and promises that nothing done in His name is ever wasted. Reflect today on the eternal impact your generosity can have. When we invest in God’s Kingdom—by supporting ministries, encouraging others, or giving our time to serve—we are planting seeds whose harvest will only be fully revealed in eternity. Imagine the lives touched, the faith strengthened, and the praises offered to God because of your willingness to give. Ask God to help you live with an eternal perspective, seeing your resources as opportunities to participate in His ongoing work. Trust that your generosity, no matter its form or size, is meaningful, powerful, and part of something far greater than yourself—an impact that will last for eternity. By Jim Connell Jim is the founder of Lexington Rescue Mission, and authors JesusIsLordBlog.com, FaithAnswersPress.net, and FAQs of Faith (a mobile app)
The Ripple Effect of Generosity “Give, and it will be given to you. A good measure, pressed down, shaken together and running over, will be poured into your lap. For with the measure you use, it will be measured to you.” (Luke 6:38) When we think about the impact of our generosity, it's easy to focus only on the person directly receiving our gift or act of kindness. However, God’s way of working is so much broader and deeper than what we can initially see. Every generous act, no matter how small it may seem, sends ripples outward, touching lives far beyond the first recipient, much like a stone tossed into still water creates widening circles that move beyond the point of impact. One encouraging aspect of generosity is that it is contagious. When we step out to care for someone else—whether with our resources, our time, or our talents—we often inspire others to do the same. Our actions can remind others of God’s love and faithfulness, and sometimes, our willingness to help becomes an invitation for a whole community to get involved. This multiplying effect means that what starts as a single act of giving can quickly grow into a wave of kindness, encouragement, and support that impacts many people. Scripture is full of examples of this “ripple effect.” One person’s generosity often leads to unexpected blessings for others. In John 6, the boy who shared his small lunch witnessed Jesus multiply it to feed thousands. His simple act of sharing didn’t just satisfy his own hunger or that of a couple of friends. Through Jesus, his gift touched the lives of an entire crowd, with food to spare. God specializes in using what we give—even when it feels small or inadequate—and blessing it far beyond our expectations. As we consider the ripple effect of generosity, it’s important to remember that the ultimate results may never be fully seen in this lifetime. Sometimes, our kindness plants seeds that will bear fruit in ways we may never know. We can trust that God takes what we offer, multiplies it, and uses it to write stories of hope, healing, and transformation. This week, reflect on ways your acts of generosity might set new ripples in motion. Even the smallest acts matter. Ask God to help you see the wider impact of your generosity and to trust Him to use your gifts to reach far beyond yourself. By Jim Connell Jim is the founder of Lexington Rescue Mission, and authors JesusIsLordBlog.com, FaithAnswersPress.net, and FAQs of Faith (a mobile app)
Generosity Beyond Money “Then Peter said, ‘Silver or gold I do not have, but what I do have I give you. In the name of Jesus Christ of Nazareth, walk.’” (Acts 3:6) Most of us, when we hear the word “generosity,” immediately think of financial giving or charitable donations. But when we look at the teachings and example of Jesus, it becomes clear that generosity is about far more than money—it’s a posture of the heart that touches every area of our lives. In fact, some of the greatest gifts we can give may not cost us a cent, but they can make a world of difference to those around us. Consider the way Jesus gave his time to people who were overlooked or despised by society, like Zacchaeus, the tax collector, or the woman at the well. He listened to their stories, offered compassion, and spoke words of hope. He allowed interruptions to become opportunities for ministry, showing that our time and presence can be powerful acts of generosity. When we are willing to really see and value others, to give them our attention and care, we mirror the heart of Jesus in everyday moments. Generosity can also be expressed through acts of service. When we help a neighbor with chores, deliver a meal to someone who is sick, or volunteer our skills and talents for the benefit of others, we are living out Christ-like generosity. Sometimes the most significant gifts are a listening ear, a word of encouragement, or a willingness to carry someone’s burden through prayer or practical support. In Galatians 6:2, Paul calls us to “bear one another’s burdens,” a command that speaks to the power of generous friendship and community. Words, too, can be a gift. A thoughtful note, a sincere compliment, or a prayer offered in faith can lift someone’s spirits and renew their strength. In a world that often leaves people feeling unseen or unappreciated, our words can bring healing and hope. As you reflect today, ask God to open your eyes to the many ways you can be generous, beyond simply opening your wallet. Perhaps He will prompt you to invest your time in someone who is lonely, to offer your abilities where there’s a need, or to share encouraging words with those who are discouraged. True generosity flows from a heart shaped by God’s love and is limited only by our willingness to respond. May we be known as people who give freely and joyfully—not just financially, but in every part of our lives. By Jim Connell Jim is the founder of Lexington Rescue Mission, and authors JesusIsLordBlog.com, FaithAnswersPress.net, and FAQs of Faith (a mobile app)
God’s Provision Through Generosity “And my God will meet all your needs according to the riches of his glory in Christ Jesus.” (Philippians 4:19) It’s easy to hold tightly to what we have when resources feel limited. We worry about running out—of money, time, energy, or even emotional strength. This anxiety can quietly shape our attitudes, making us more cautious or even hesitant to give, for fear that if we let go, there won’t be enough left for us. But in Philippians 4:19, Paul reminds us that we serve a God of abundance, not scarcity. He wrote these words to the Philippian church after they chose to give sacrificially to support his ministry, even though their own resources were hardly overflowing. Despite their own needs, they gave to bless others. Paul reassures them—and us—that God sees every sacrifice and is faithful to meet every need. Generosity often requires trust before it reveals its reward. If we look only at our current circumstances—our bank account, our schedules, our energy levels—it’s natural to want to hold back. But Scripture challenges us to place our confidence not in what we can see, but in God’s character and faithfulness. Our acts of generosity don’t “earn” God’s provision; rather, they open our eyes to a greater reality: God is already caring for us in countless ways. So often, when we step out in faith and give, we find our needs met in surprising, creative, and often humbling ways. Sometimes this provision is material; other times, it’s encouragement, community, or a strengthened faith. God’s economy is different from the world’s. In His design, generosity is never wasteful or foolish—it’s the way grace multiplies. What we give, God uses and multiplies far beyond our imaginations, blessing others and, in turn, enriching us in unexpected ways. Paul’s confidence in God’s provision wasn’t theory; it was grounded in experience. He knew that as he and the Philippians trusted God and practiced generosity, God would continue to supply every need—out of the limitless riches of Christ. Whatever your means, remember that God’s hands never run empty, and neither do the hands of those who trust in Him. Ask God to give you wisdom and courage to live generously. Consider: How can you practice generosity today—not just financially, but with your time, your encouragement, your presence? Trust that as you give, He will provide for you, often in ways you could not have anticipated. By Jim Connell Jim is the founder of Lexington Rescue Mission, and authors JesusIsLordBlog.com, FaithAnswersPress.net, and FAQs of Faith (a mobile app)
