“God gave you two ears and one mouth, so you should listen twice as much as you talk.” Though often said by

frustrated parents, it is good advice… especially for leaders.

David faced a difficult leadership challenge in 1 Samuel 23. The Philistines were fighting against the Jewish city of

Keilah. People came to David looking for answers, so he did what a good leader should do. David inquired of the

Lord, “Shall I go and attack these Philistines?” (1 Samuel 23:2)

David didn’t make a rash decision. He decided to listen to God before speaking to his people. This is a good

example for all of us, no matter where we are leading. Whether we are parents, leaders at work, or a leader-in-

training, we begin by listening to God. What does that look like?

• We consistently read the Bible. What God has said in the Bible applies to all areas of life (2 Timothy 3:16-17),

especially leadership. We may not find an exact answer to every situation, but we will find principles and

commands that apply.

• We are faithful in prayer. No matter how big or small of a decision we face, prayer is a key component.

Through His Spirit and His Word, God will lead us in the right direction.

• We listen to others. Although we should never follow advice that is contrary to God’s Word, God will often

provide wisdom through the counsel of godly men and women. As Proverbs 12:15 says, The way of a fool is

right in his own eyes, but a wise man listens to advice.

If I am honest, seeking the advice of others can be difficult due to my pride. This is especially true if the topic is

something I think I should know. I have to remind myself that seeking counsel is not a sign of weakness, it is a sign of good leadership.

How are you doing in these three aspects of listening to God? Remember, God gave each of us two ears and one

mouth, so let’s all make sure we are listening to what He has to say.

By Philip Jones

Philip and his wife Stacy have been attending Immanuel since 2015. They are blessed to be raising four kids. His

passion in ministry is to help others follow Jesus through teaching, preaching, and personal discipleship.